What makes you the way you are.....

Every individual on this earth has a different identity. Even identical twins are different in some or the other way. We should be happy that God has taken special time for creating each one of us, molding us into who we would be on earth. We all have different identities because of our different personas.  Each one of us have different plus points as well as different negative points, we have talents as well as inefficiencies, strengths as well as weaknesses.

                     Our personality gives us an identity in the society.  There are various types of personalities according to which people judge us. For example, a friendly, fun loving person is always considered an extrovert.  Whereas a shy person would spend time at home instead of spending an hour outside is considered to be an introvert. In this way our personalities give us a separate and different identity.  None of us can be perfect all of us have different plus points as well as different minus points. For example an extremely charming person may have a heart of stone while on the other hand an ugly person may have a heart of gold, a person who excels in academics may not be talented in extracurricular activities whereas one who excels in extracurricular activities may be dumb in academics.  Not all of us are talented nor are all of us inefficient.  We have our strengths as well as our weaknesses. For some their family may be their strength whereas for some their children may strengthen them in their difficult times. On the other hand for some people their family itself is their weakness whereas for some their weakness may be alcohol, drugs, smoking, etc. but at the end it doesn’t matter what are our plus points, negative points, talents, inefficiencies, strengths or weaknesses what matters is that how do we live with them.

                            Every individual should be happy that God has made him/her way different from the others, and he/she should also be happy that there is no other individual like him/her.  I conclude by quoting Shania Twain,  “I find that the very things that I get criticized for, which is usually being different and just doing my own thing and just being original, is the very thing that's making me successful.”                     

Friends!!!

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riendship is such a relationship between people which does not have any barrier. As friends we don’t hesitate to say anything to each other as we know we’ll never be mistaken by our friends. Friendship has no bounds of race, caste, creed, gender, distances, status, wealth, looks, age, etc. All friendship needs is to understand and love your friends as they are. Friendship is a bond between people which grows as days pass by making it more meaningful

              Friendship can never be a give and take relationship.  Nothing can measure the depths of friendship. A friend is a person who is always there to listen to you and at times understands everything even before uttering a word. A friend is a guide who corrects me when I am wrong and shows me the right way. A friend is a person who will understand you and your situation even when no one is ready to listen to you. Friends are always with you in sorrows,  in joys,  while trying something thrilling,  while trying something new,  they are the ones who are with you in the times of celebration as well as stand by your side during trials and tribulation.

            It is very important to understand the other person’s feelings of the other person to be a good friend. And always remember friends never keep any grudges nor do they seek for any sort of revenge. They’ll always be by your side through all the whirlwinds and storms, springs and summers of your life.